Let me put my two cents worth into the emigration discussion. If you want to migrate, do so, but please do not belittle this country of ours. Yes, I see injustice, and yes I hate it.

Being from a mixed family of Chinese and Malay, I empathise with both sides of the argument. Changes must start from the men and women in the streets like us, who decide to stay in Malaysia.

I studied in the US, back in the 80s. I saw chances (read: scholarships) being given to a number of my fellow countrymen (read: bumis) being misused (read: there is no studying).

I understood well that these persons were not deserving of the chances given to them. I came from a home where the breadwinner was a labourer (yes, buruh kasar ). These chances should have been given to my more deserving countrymen, irrespective their race or religion.

The affirmative action in place in Malaysia has helped me, no doubt about it, however it must not be perpetual. Once the bumis are on their feet, and can compete effectively and fairly, it is time to let the affirmative action go.

If not, the bumis are 'handicapped' in that they will always be waiting for handouts. This will lead to them lacking in inner strength, persistence and an instinct for survival. They will find it hard to compete in a competitive environment.

I have started saving for my children's university education ( I have seven - six girls and one boy!). I sent my first daughter, who was born in the US, to learn English even though she wanted to study Japanese, while waiting for her SPM results.

She's also very good at Arabic. She's doing her Form 6 now (instead to matriculation). I've given her all the tools necessary to succeed. It's up to her now - to stay put in Malaysia or seek her fortune/happiness elsewhere.