I refer to the letter My God... and must say that the writer has been confused by the term gender neutral.

One of the attributes of Allah is being transcendental in terms of gender and everyone knows that Jesus, the Son of Mary is a male. My reference is to Allah whom she claims to be the father of Jesus.

If Allah is gender neutral, than the claim of Allah being the father of Jesus, become null.

I once again emphasise that one of the attributes of the word 'Allah' in Arabic is beyond gender. Everyone may use the word Allah to denote the Supreme Force if their beliefs are in concordance to the attributes of the word, and its meaning in its original language.