Coming out with courage and integrity
Malaysian writer Ouyang Wen Feng's acceptance and recognition of himself as a homosexual individual has been due to the support of American pastor Rev Pat Bumgardner.
Malaysian writer Ouyang Wen Feng's acceptance and recognition of himself as a homosexual individual has been due to the support of American pastor Rev Pat Bumgardner.
It was only natural that she was invited to the launch of his Chinese-language book, 'My Journey', at an art gallery in Kuala Lumpur yesterday.
During an open discussion in conjunction with the launch, she described his open acceptance as a courageous action that also reflects well on his integrity.
Bumgardner, a senior pastor based in the Metropolitan Church in New York, said Ouyang has honoured his family by revealing the truth after more than 30 years.
"Ouyang this evening has restored truth and honesty to this foundational relationship," she said.
"Being truthful to yourself, accepting and recognising your true self is an idea that has always been promoted by Christianity. Ouyang has successfully done what he has to do."
A former journalist, Ouyang is a well-known columnist-cum-writer for Chinese-language daily
Sin Chew Daily
. His
Sin Chew
column, 'Under the Statue of Liberty', is mostly a critical analysis of current issues in the United States.
He acknowledged his homosexuality before an audience of about 100, who included his Spanish partner Angel, his mother and friends.
Ouyang, 36, is arguably one of the most high-profile figures in the Chinese community to come out openly as a homosexual.
Need for role models
Bumgardner said Ouyang's decision will encourage those of the younger generation to be true to themselves and to build an inclusive community.
As homosexuals are often marginalised, she said it is vital for them to have role models who can show them the route to freedom and equality.
"Ouyang is... (such a) role model. He has love for all people around the globe, especially in Malaysia. They can follow in his footsteps to claim the dignified place in life that god intended for them," she said.
"He has taken the initiative to lead a vision of mutual respect. With his courage in 'coming out', he is calling on (homosexuals) to take their lives seriously and to live openly by accepting and affirming (their homosexuality)."
Ouyang's book is an account of his journey of discovery as a homosexual.
"They (homosexuals) must first accept and recognise themselves before persuading society to accept them," he told his audience.
Ouyang ( right ) is simultaneously pursuing two doctoral degrees - in sociology at the City University of New York, and in theological studies at the University of Boston.
He hopes to become a member of the clergy in 2010 and plans to set up a Christian gay community by then.

